Just a few days ago I got seven-eight flies in my bedroom around the window. I was looking for cracks, holes, openings, and couldn’t find anything. Where did they get in? I had no idea. I grabbed a t-shirt, and killed them. Cruel right? Yes, but I really didn’t know what else to do, since it was late at night, and I wanted to sleep.
Next day I had seven-eight new ones. Wow, I was furious. Son of a gun, I thought. What am I going to do? Looked again everywhere to find out how did they get in. Nothing. This situation went on for a couple of days.
Finally I gave in, and asked a friend of mine to take a look. She came into my room, opened the window that was by that time covered with flies, and let them out. Go figure. No killing was required.
I was trying to figure it out. Solve the problem. Sometimes all you need to do is, ASK FOR HELP, and LET IT GO. I still don’t know how on Earth did they come in. It’s not important. They are gone, because I ASKED FOR HELP and I LET THEM GO.
Do you have “flies” in your life? Are you able to let them go? Did you ask for help? You didn’t? YOU DON”T HAVE TO DO IT ALONE, no matter how small or big the problem is.
Why didn’t I come up with the solution? – my ego would try to keep asking that question. Because I was IN IT.
If you’re in it up to your eyeballs, and you’re not able to find a solution or let go, to open that window, ask for help. I’m here. Your problem is simple to me, because I’m not in it, and I have some awesome tools too.