Flies In My Room

Just a few days ago I got seven-eight flies in my bedroom around the window. I was looking for cracks, holes, openings, and couldn’t find anything. Where did they get in? I had no idea. I grabbed a t-shirt, and killed them. Cruel right? Yes, but I really didn’t know what else to do, since it was late at night, and I wanted to sleep.

Next day I had seven-eight new ones. Wow, I was furious. Son of a gun, I thought. What am I going to do? Looked again everywhere to find out how did they get in. Nothing. This situation went on for a couple of days.

Finally I gave in, and asked a friend of mine to take a look. She came into my room, opened the window that was by that time covered with flies, and let them out. Go figure. No killing was required.

I was trying to figure it out. Solve the problem. Sometimes all you need to do is, ASK FOR HELP, and LET IT GO. I still don’t know how on Earth did they come in. It’s not important. They are gone, because I ASKED FOR HELP and I LET THEM GO.

Do you have “flies” in your life? Are you able to let them go? Did you ask for help? You didn’t? YOU DON”T HAVE TO DO IT ALONE, no matter how small or big the problem is.

Why didn’t I come up with the solution? – my ego would try to keep asking that question. Because I was IN IT.

If you’re in it up to your eyeballs, and you’re not able to find a solution or let go, to open that window, ask for help. I’m here. Your problem is simple to me, because I’m not in it, and I have some awesome tools too.

Pretending to like your plan B is hard work

Kids these days have an idea at a young age what their goals and dreams are. Don’t worry if you don’t have it yet, because everybody has their own timing. We often ask ourselves: What am I to do on this Planet? People who just want to get rich, live a luxurious life for their own sake, are not my cup of tea. I would like to help those who are eager to find out what their calling is, to find themselves under the pile of generational, social, political, religious, etc. issues/agendas, and get in touch with their own blue print.

Let me touch another issue related to this subject. A lot of people do know what their goals and dreams are at a young age, but they forget. Wow, how does that happen? Life happens. If you let it. Sometimes it’s inevitable: we need to take care of someone, have an accident, tragedy, we want to please somebody else, and we get derailed. I’m not supposed to hate, I’m a healer, but I do hate this word: “derailed”. That word means plan B or C. That word means not living your own life. That’s when you louse years spending in limbo, focus, and start living a life according to somebody else’s expectations. In situations, when you need to put your own life on hold, keep remembering that dream, fantasize about that dream: like a waitress, who keeps going to auditions to become an actress, just DO NOT GIVE UP.

If you feel you’re drowning in plan B, and want to do something about it, need some direction, motivation, some tools to stay focused, look me up. I’m here, talk to me! I will help you remember who you are, and discover your purpose/calling/mission. It’s NEVER TOO LATE.

Forgiveness Misunderstood

No, it’s never enough to talk about this particular topic. Some of you still think that forgiving someone means agreeing with what they’ve done, or said that hurt you. No, what it means, that you have peace. What it means is, that you’re no longer torturing yourself about it, you put it to rest. And you rest. You stop the: But how could she/he….? Or how could I….? How about forgiving yourself your own mistakes? and move on, move on, move on!!!!!!

Life is full of mistakes, failures. The good part is, when you look back and you know, that that was a mistake, you did grow, and you’re not there anymore. Unforgiveness would keep you in the past, keep you stuck, whether it’s toward somebody else or toward yourself.

You’re not free until you forgive. You hold yourself a prisoner of grudge, sadness, hurt, disrespect, or whatever the violation was. You might even attract more of the same.

If you would like to forgive, but you don’t know how, Geotran will help you in no time. Come on! Don’t waste your energy any longer! Open up your heart again! Live your life in happiness and joy, because that’s what is waiting for you at the other end of it.

Addictions – Teens and Young Adults

Why am I talking to/about teenagers and young adults exclusively this time, when there are plenty of adults shooting and snoring up? Because they are trying to find themselves, who they are, what they want, what their purpose in life is, who they love, … everything for them is up in the air. They are vulnerable.

There are a few exceptions – kids who have a strong sense of self at a very young age. That’s a blessing. The majority aren’t strong enough to fight back, to say no, they are more adventurous than they should be. I would say adventure’s misunderstood big time.

What they need is a safe environment at that time, so they can focus on figuring it all out.

And I’m not trying to blame, judge or criticize anybody here, because sometimes the family does everything right, and things go wrong anyway, and it’s not my place to judge.

Please listen to this song from Alan Parson Project: https://youtu.be/NK-_2G7MMgc.

But sometimes we need to take a look at the family. I can hear people say to this: “It’s none of my business”. Well, that’s one way to look at it. One poor, miserable, ignorant way. Please excuse my bluntness, but I have heard just too many sad stories about young lives lost, and I would like to raise awareness to this point: “If you see something, DO SOMETHING”! We don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors. It could be anything: emotional/mental abuse, physical abuse, incest, etc. We can help only those, who we know about, and those who allow our help. I’m not sure where is the fine line in the situation of addictions.

Here is the problem or problems:

1. The addiction itself (which is a symptom of an underlying issue) is becoming more difficult to resolve, overcome, deal with, than the underlying cause. We can’t say it any more directly: it’s only the tip of the iceberg. Later, it becomes the iceberg!!!!! It directly endangers the lives of young, innocent and lost (emotionally / spiritually) children.

2. People with addiction deal with victim mentality and “no way out” or “no choice” mentality. The marriage of these two makes it impossible to change the course of events. Again, there is no judgment on my part. Why, because I did go through some phases of it myself, but I was able to stop at the edge of the cliff. Thanks to Geotran! It is mandatory to restore choice, and get out of the victim mentality to start making different decisions. How? The answer is: GEOTRAN. Please be curious, and ask questions. I’m here.

3. On top of the above, or some would argue, that this is the # 1 cause: no faith, no trust. We need to love ourselves, we need the love of others, and we need to feel the love of God, to be connected. How? Once choice is restored, and the person is no longer a victim, is able to step up to the plate, and is accountable for his/her own actions, this person does not want to stay disconnected from the Source. There are different ways to achieve that connection. Feel free to ask questions. I am here.

4. There is no order of priority here. All these are equally important, and there are more components to this complex issue. The underlying cause has to be dealt with. It is mandatory. If there is a trigger (person, place or thing) that has to be eliminated, no matter how close that may be, in order for someone to develop a healthy soul (thoughts, emotions and will). Children, teens and young adults are very sensitive to the issues of the adults in their lives, and may feel responsible for them, may feel being the cause to their suffering. It’s a trap!!!!!

A good healer has to have the ability to change this misunderstanding, and create a safe haven for the child to grow into a happy, responsible and successful adult.

5. Lastly, the health of a person with addiction is greatly compromised. The brain chemistry is altered, hopefully not to the point of mental illness. The physical body needs to be built up, balanced, nourished, and all this in a safe, loving and nurturing environment. I am a Certified Naturopath, specialized in nutrition and herbology, and I can give you a hand.

Again, if you see or hear something, DO SOMETHING. Why? Because the person that you are doing something for is a fellow HUMAN BEING.

“Relearn the forgotten language of the instincts” Carl Jung

“Interpretation of dreams enriches consciousness to such an extent that it relearns the forgotten language of the instincts”. Carl Jung: Man & His Symbols, page 52

It would be great if we would all hear that whisper that tells us what to do in a difficult situation, whom to tell our most inner secrets, who is our best friend, whom can we trust, what is our next step, what is our purpose here on the face of the Earth, and so on… We could prevent many disappointments and probably tragedies too in life.

So why does Jung say “forgotten language of the instincts”? What happened? How did we forget? And are there any other ways to relearn the language of the instincts?

Our instincts are coming from our right brain, which needs to be activated. Once it’s activated it needs to be connected to the left brain. We rely on our left brain too much, when we want to figure everything out by ourselves. Intuition means listening to your Higher Self, Universe, God, the Wind, Infinite Intelligence, Source…..pick a word, and getting the answers. To be able to do that, we need to trust that source. So a good question at this time would be: Do we trust? Do we have faith? People loose that trust, faith for all kind of reason. How do we restore FAITH?

There are two more steps to relearning the language of instincts: the left and the right brain need to be connected and communicating, and we need to be connected to the Source. Geotran, the language of all possibilities does this with ease, simplicity and fun. You can learn it yourself, or you can participate in sessions. Geotran will help you restore faith, restore choice, and help you relearn the language of instincts. The result is rapid personal transformation. Do not waste years of your life trying to figure it all out by yourself.

Ask for HELP.

The Role of Geotran When There are no Past Negative Experiences

I keep meeting people, who don’t have traumas, tragedies, divorces, accidents, addictions or any other drama in their families. I am so happy for them. I needed to train myself though, because after seeing and hearing all kinds of horror/tragic stories, my first reaction use to be: maybe they don’t feel comfortable talking about it, they are not ready yet, they are in denial, and so on and so forth.

I was wrong, of course. It is true. Some people grew up in loving, nurturing families/environment. So why did I still think that something was wrong? Because something was/is.

Just an example. My Dad use to walk to work 10-15 minutes beside the river in a park. He started at 6AM, was finished by 2PM. He was home by 2:20PM the latest. A fresh, home-cooked meal was waiting for him every day at home. My Mom was a homemaker, there were no loose ends. Laundry, cleaning, shopping, kids/homework done.

Today, we are more courageous, we need to be challenged, we go for our goals and dreams, we change careers, we migrate to another continent, we fall in love at (just an example) a business meeting in Hong-Kong, and we have a long distance relationship for years; I’m not even going to start with what does it take to run a whole family for full-time working parents. How much time, energy and patience is left?

Is it possible to find balance and harmony between the two previous extremes? It is. But we need to keep something in mind: Life is not that short. If we are running, we might skip a step, and we’ll need to go back to fix it.

Geotran, the language of all possibilities will develop a high intuition (we call it hearing) you’ll know what’s priority, what feels right, what is the next step, even what is the next question. Once you ask the right questions, you’ll get the right answers too. Geotran’s wonderful Positive Points will distress your life of any kind of aggravation, stress; the Mind Gems will help you to change your thoughts and emotions to positive in minutes; the Clearings will remove any stumbling blocks that might prevent you living a joyous, balanced and harmonious life. And these are just a few of the many tools that Geotran offers in sessions and workshops for you to be able to say yes to career, to say yes to family, and to know when.